They say that Reb Simcha Bunim of Peschischa used to say that one should have two pockets. On one pocket, it should say, “The world was created for me.” On the other, it should say, “I am but dust and ashes.”

As we approach Rosh Hashana and reflect on the past year, it helps to keep both perspectives in mind. On the one hand, each of us was created with tremendous potential to change the world. On the other hand, there are things in this world that are outside of our control and are not up to us to change.

While it’s important to set goals for ourselves for the upcoming year, it is also important not to blame ourselves for those aspects of last year’s goals that did not materialize. We can try, but we have no control over the outcome. And the best we can do this Elul is to commit to try again. “It is not up to us to finish the work, yet we are not free to refrain from it” (Pirkei Avos 2:21).

For those who have room in their hearts and their homes for a tremendous chessed, here’s my article on the need for Jewish foster parents in Los Angeles.

Another inspiring project is Beit Nesicha — a residental treatment program for Jewish women.

And Sharsheret’s Pink Challah Bake was also inspiring.